A sexy striptease is a unique surprise for your partner or an exciting way to reveal your body to someone for the first time. Sexy clothes and lighting that makes the atmosphere "warm" help a lot, but the ideal is to maintain confidence and do what you love. Acting a little silly at first is not a problem if it makes you more comfortable, however, stay focused and whoever is watching will be more and more excited about your little show!
Method 1 of 3: Taking Off Your Clothes (Women)
Step 1. Prepare yourself beforehand (optional)
You can use these tips whenever you undress, regardless of what you're wearing and how far you want to go. But if you want to make a special striptease for your partner, choose well what you will wear and the location in advance. Put on lacy or semi-transparent underwear, garter pantyhose, and a few layers of sexy clothing on top that are easy to remove. It's a good idea to have a chair for your partner to sit on and another for you to use during the performance.
Putting on music can help you find a good rhythm, especially if you're feeling uncomfortable or uncomfortable
Step 2. Take off a large jacket or heavy coat
Take advantage of this situation by standing directly in front of your partner with your legs wide apart and your weight a little more on one leg. Maintain eye contact when unbuttoning your jacket/coat.
Step 3. Walk provocatively for a few minutes
Don't be in a hurry to get naked; striptease consists of taking a while to fully undress, leaving the partner increasingly excited and expecting to see her with nothing. Tell the partner to sit in the chair and walk around the chair, showing the front, sides, and back of your body. Pull the straps of your dress, bra or the buttons of your shirt, as if you are about to take them off at any moment. Be creative about sensual poses or try the following:
- If you're wearing a low-cut shirt, lean slightly forward toward your partner.
- Keep your back to him and lean forward a little on a chair or bed.
- Quickly tap your partner's groin and step back.
- Sit on a chair and spread your legs slowly while giving him a sexy smile.
- Feel the breasts, groin or any part of the body that your partner finds sensual.
Step 4. Seductively take off your sweatshirt or shirt
Stand with your legs together in a very feminine posture, with one foot facing the other, or adopt a more aggressive posture, with your legs spread wide and your weight a little more to one side. Cross your arms over your chest and run your tongue over the area just below while running your hands over your head.
If you have long hair, shake your head and let it spread out a lot
Step 5. Tease him with a button-down shirt
Buttoned shirts are perfect for striptease, as you can turn each button into a mini-show of its own! Unbutton some at the top and bottom first to make your outfit look sexier. Remove them slowly, one by one, as you continue to move and pose. After you've unbuttoned all of them, let the shirt slowly slide off your shoulders, facing away from your partner and allowing the garment to fall to the floor.
- Unbutton the sleeve first or even before entering the room.
- This technique can be even "hot" when using one hand while the other is on the hip. Train hard if you are going to use it.
Step 6. Take off your robe
Keep leaving your partner "on" as you take off each piece of clothing, and ask "are you ready for more?" a few times before fully undressing. Pull down the straps of the robe or a piece of clothing that is loose and let it fall or slip to the floor.
Step 7. Take off a skirt
This zippered garment is great for beginners as it can be removed easily and by surprise in just about any pose. A short, tight skirt is also an excellent option, as before taking it off completely, you can pull it up and make your partner more excited when you see your butt.
Step 8. Learn how to remove denim pieces in a sexy way
This is another technique that should be practiced in advance, as tight jeans tend to be less sexy when you land with your legs curled! Try kneeling down and pulling the piece up to your knee, showing your butt to your partner. Sit down to remove the rest of your pants.
Step 9. Play with your pantyhose
You might prefer to leave this piece and not take it off, especially with a garter belt; on the other hand, a pair of plain nylon tights can be a great option. Place your leg over a chair and slowly remove the pantyhose, tearing them off suddenly or pretending your wrists are stuck. They are strong visual stimuli and a great method to lighten the environment a little.
- High heels can also stay with the pantyhose and not be taken off, as long as you can walk and pose gracefully in them.
- Try wearing a pair of pantyhose that's a little larger, with a garter belt to keep them tight. This gives you more freedom of movement during the striptease.
Step 10. Take off the bra
Give your bra straps a tug during the show to get your partner excited. When you're finally ready to take it off, turn your back to the person and open the bra, letting it drop to the floor as you turn and show your breasts to your partner.
Step 11. Take off your panties
If there is a chance to prepare before the striptease, choose a pair of lace panties, one that is very sensual or even a thong. Just don't get one so tight it leaves marks. Try pulling them out standing up with your legs straight or lying down and remove them when they reach your feet, where you can throw them away.
If you're wearing a sexy garter belt, wear your panties over them so you don't have to take them off
Method 2 of 3: Taking Off Your Clothes (Men)
Step 1. Set the mood as you like
If you like a more serious type of seduction, choose a spot with low lights or use candles and lamps instead of overhead lighting. If you want something more fun and light, brighten up the place and put on some very lively music.
Men's clothing options for a striptease are generally less varied than women's. Stripping a normal outfit can be done, but if you want something unique, try to find props or outfits that fit into masculine themes like cowboy or firefighter
Step 2. Dance only if you feel comfortable
If you can dance in a sensual way, show your partner what you know how to do between the pieces of clothing you remove or even when undressing one. However, if you're not a good dancer, just roll over from time to time and take turns to show your partner from a different angle.
Step 3. Take off your shoes and socks
Men's shoes and socks are far from sexy, so they should be taken off as soon as the mood starts to get hot. Throw it all away, far away from you.
Step 4. Tear off the tie
If you're wearing a tie, undo the tie and throw it away or toward your partner quickly and aggressively. Striptease can be slow and sensual if you don't find it uncomfortable, but most men prefer a more aggressive and energetic style.
Step 5. Grab the shirt or sweatshirt by the collar and pull it off over your head
Pull the shirt in the same way and toss it to the side or on top of your partner. Another alternative is to catch it from underneath instead of the collar, using the same movement.
Step 6. Unbutton shirts of this type, but leave it for the end of the strip
If the shirt has buttons, undo them from above while maintaining eye contact with your partner. Take it off last, after removing the pants, so the person still keeps the anticipation high or if they like the "half-shirt" look.
Step 7. Take off your pants
Pull the belt and take off one leg at a time. Take it easy so your foot doesn't get stuck and the sensual mood is shaken.
Don't try to take your pants off in a sexy way. This technique is one of the mysterious laws of the universe, as it only works with women
Step 8. Let partner take off her panties
In this part, call your partner to go to the next step, allowing her to remove her underwear as well as her shirt, which is still "half buttoned". The tightest underwear may have to be taken off by yourself.
Another option is not to wear underwear, making a "surprise" for the partner
Method 3 of 3: Undressing Another Person
Step 1. Ask permission if the person is a new sexual partner
If you've never had sex with this new partner, don't make any assumptions. Even if you're in the mood for sex today, your comfort level will probably be greater if you allow her to set her own pace and take off the clothes she's wearing.
If stopping to ask something every two minutes seems too weird, try holding a button/zipper/bra strap and looking at the other person with your eyebrow raised, as if asking permission
Step 2. Remove your partner's clothes slowly
Nothing ends the sensual mood faster than when the other person punches you in the face because you've taken off your shirt too roughly. When undressing someone, go slow and be sexy. Between each piece of clothing removed, kiss the part that is now exposed or run your hands over his/her body.
Step 3. Tear off the belt
Take both ends of the belt, unbuckle it and take it off in one movement. It's okay if you need to take an extra pull or two to get the act right. Try to do this while you are behind the person if you are confident in your abilities.
Step 4. Secure the other person's arms in a t-shirt
Pull up the bottom hem of the shirt until it is partially over your partner's arms, but with the collar still around the neck. Hold him in this position while playing, kissing or caressing him before removing his shirt altogether.
Step 5. Stealthily remove the man's pants
Distract him by kissing while unbuttoning his shirt or unzipping his pants and taking them off. Use your foot to bring them to the ground. If he's distracted enough, he might not even notice what you're doing until he feels the pants on his feet.
This technique will likely not work on women's pants, as they are generally more difficult to take off
Step 6. Remove any clothing with your teeth
Most of the time, this method takes a few tries, so use it only when you're confident or when the weather between you is a little hot. With practice and effort, even button-down shirts will come off, but be careful not to hurt your mouth with metal zippers.
Step 7. Don't "fight" with the woman's bra for more than a few seconds
This piece is infamous to men for the difficulty they have in removing it, but it is not difficult to learn the right way. If after a few seconds you can't, let her take it off.
- Try to ignore feelings of self-awareness. Your partner will be focused on your sensuality (and striptease as well) if you don't share any strange feelings that plague her at that moment.
- Don't take yourself too seriously. If something goes wrong, have a relaxed laugh and get back to the performance.
- Cross-dressing (dressing in clothes of the opposite sex) can be provocative, whether your style is preferred or not. If you try to do this, remember that your silhouette can affect your movement. If you want to put on a show but have no idea what it's like for the opposite sex, be humorous and lighthearted.