You hate being so shy in front of him, right? You don't want to move or talk and just look at him? It's even more frustrating when you're thinking about it when you're around him, not knowing what to do. You just want to scream!
Steps
Step 1. Find out how you look when you are around the boy; you can even ask some of your friends how you are around him
When you approach him, does your face suddenly turn red? Does your body tremble? Does your heart beat faster? Does your body suddenly feel weak, cold or hot? You can ask your friends to tell you whenever you are around him.
Step 2. Know and remember that if the guy sees you like this, he can know that you like him
You don't want that to happen, because you're not ready for anything else. And you're not ready because you're reading this article, and because you don't know what to do when you're around it.
Step 3. Whenever you approach the boy, whether it's because you found him in a store, at school with friends or alone, or just anywhere, stay calm and focus your attention on something else
You must look for something else that will take your attention off this boy. For example, let's say you have homework to do. Think about it and see if you did it correctly. Or, if you're in a store, you can look through the aisles and think about what you want to buy. If you're with friends, don't look in his direction, just try to stay calm - talk and pay close attention to what your friends are saying. Try to act like he's not there. Slowly you will begin to get over your shyness.
Step 4. If you think about the boy a lot and even daydream about him, try, little by little, to think about him less and less each day, so that it's not a big deal when you see him
Do this slowly, because it won't happen quickly. It will probably take 3 days or more, maybe even a week, but it will help you A LOT!
Step 5. When you've gotten over your shyness or feel more comfortable around the boy, stay POSITIVE
Look pretty, but be yourself and don't change who you are. It will make you feel better about yourself. The boy can notice you if you are very positive, confident, intelligent and friendly around him!
Step 6. Make your friends make you feel better and help you with the boy (especially friends you trust)
For example, when you are with them, ask them if they look nice and of course they will give you the honest answer - "Yes!" - and not a lying answer.
Step 7. Find something you have in common with him, and if it's an activity, ask him how he's doing
If it's music, ask about shows or CDs!
Step 8. Pretend he's a regular guy
Try to act like you act around your friends or relatives.
Tips
- Maintain your daily hygiene routine. (Note: Remember, no guy wants a girl who stinks or never showers!)
- Be confident and smile. Nobody wants to date a girl who is always sad and scowling.
- Try chatting once in a while (he might get annoyed if you talk to him every day).
- Never, never let a boy get in the way of your friendship with your friends (if you ask your friends to help make the boy like you).
- Keep calm. He's just a normal guy, cute, talented and funny, right?