Kissing for the first time can be scary for some people, but knowing some basic techniques can help you get it right right away. House one has its own preferences about what makes a kiss good. If you're with a partner who doesn't kiss the way you want, you've come to the right place! Follow the tips below to teach him how to kiss your way. Come on?
Steps
Method 1 of 3: Learning to kiss
Step 1. Practice using your own hand
It's a good idea to practice kissing before you start practicing with someone else. Close your hand and turn your palm against your face. Extend your index and middle fingers, pointing them up. Turn the wrist sideways, with the two fingers stretched out against the lips. Imagine they are someone else's mouth and kiss them.
Step 2. Lean forward
You have to learn to lean toward the other person to kiss them. After doing this, wait a second and analyze her reaction. If she seems willing, it's kiss time!
- If the person leans forward too, kiss them!
- If she turns or doesn't lean toward you, it's best to stop there. Don't take it personally; it is possible that the person is simply not ready.
Step 3. Touch the other person's mouth, gently pressing your lips against theirs
The idea is for your upper lip to be in the center of your partner's mouth, with your lower lip just below your partner's mouth. Move your lips, parting them gently before bringing them together again.
Step 4. Kiss it calmly, keeping your lips slightly parted
The first kiss should be soft and romantic, leaving a little "want more" aftertaste. That way, your partner will want a longer, more intimate kiss. Pay attention to the person's body language to see if they want more intensity or not. Leave the tongue kiss for after that moment.
Learn to interpret each other's body language to make kissing better. For example, if the person wanders off, try taking it easy or temporarily interrupting the make-out session
Step 5. Try other kissing styles gradually
As you feel more comfortable starting to kiss, start experimenting with other types of kissing. That way you'll find out which ones you like and become more compatible with your partner.
Method 2 of 3: Controlling an Overkill Kisser
Step 1. Start teasing
If you're dealing with a partner who doesn't know how to kiss calmly and carefully, tease him a little. For example, give each other a soft peck. Also nibbled on his lips, but don't really kiss him for now.
- For example, if your girlfriend starts kissing you with a lot of intensity, step back and kiss her on the neck. Start again, this time being careful to show that you'd like to take it easy.
- Kiss a little bit with your mouth closed before opening your lips for your tongue.
Step 2. Say how you would like to kiss
When your partner starts using too much force and saliva, step back and say how you would like to be kissed. Say, for example, that you would like more affectionate kisses. Demonstrate too: after saying "I want to be kissed like this", demonstrate the kind of kiss you are looking for.
Step 3. Pull your partner's head gently
If your girlfriend is pressing your lips too hard, give her hair a little tug to relieve the pressure. Run your hand through her hair and gently pull. When she loosens her mouth a little, tell her that's how you like it!
For example, say, "Hmm, this is how I like to kiss you."
Method 3 of 3: Encouraging a Shy Person
Step 1. Turn the situation into a game
If your partner is nervous about kissing, try creating a game to demonstrate how you would like to receive a kiss. A good option is to kiss each other alternately. First, kiss him the way you would like to be kissed. Then ask him to try to do the same. Finally, reverse the positions, with the other showing how he would like to be kissed.
That way, both of you will know what types of kisses you like. This will certainly bring them closer together in this regard
Step 2. Discuss kissing with your partner
A good way to overcome shyness is to talk openly about how you would like to be kissed. Have a candid discussion with the person, explaining that you would like them to take the initiative from time to time. Explain what types of kisses you like!
- If you like to receive kisses that go from the neck to the mouth, tell your boyfriend that. He will certainly want to please you.
- If you like to be surprised by a sudden make-out, say so! Tell your girlfriend you would like to be surprised with unexpected kisses. She will like it!
Step 3. Perfect the weather
It's pretty easy to encourage a make-out session by choosing the right mood. In some cases, it takes time alone for the other person to feel comfortable with kissing. Some tips:
- Snuggle up on the sofa with the lights off to create an atmosphere of intimacy.
- Take the person on a picnic in a secluded spot to enjoy each other's company.
Step 4. Give lots of praise for the other person's efforts
People who don't have much experience with kissing often suffer from trust issues. In that case, encourage attempts, especially when receiving a good kiss. Saying that you loved your girlfriend's kiss might encourage her to kiss like that again, as well as make her happy with the achievement.
Say things like "I like it that way" or "Wow, that was really good" during a make-out session to show that you like it
Tips
- Keep communication open. We're all different, so the best way to teach someone to kiss is to talk about how you like to be kissed.
- Kiss the way you would like to be kissed. Demonstrating in practice how the ideal kiss is for you is the best way to guide your partner.
- Always opt for positive and encouraging interactions. The idea is that your partner better kisses, right? So act positively! If you complain about the way he kisses, the results will be the opposite of what you want.
Notices
- It's important that the other person also wants to kiss you. If the person seems to hesitate, don't push the envelope.
- Always take care of your breath before kissing someone. A clean mouth with fresh breath is very important! Nobody wants a kiss that tastes like food!
- Saying you don't like the way a person kisses can irritate you deeply. Speak gently when touching on this sensitive subject.