To be seductive, you have to pay attention and act on the needs of the desired person. If that's your case, you have to spend time with the girl, create a suitable atmosphere and get physically closer to her little by little.
Steps
Part 1 of 3: Organizing and combining everything
Step 1. Take it easy
The art of seduction requires timing. Part of what creates attraction between two people is anticipation. When you meet an interesting woman, take it one step at a time. Wait a while to approach it, and at first, listen more and talk less. Don't reveal your intentions right away, or she may be annoyed.
Step 2. Dress up
Style is one of the main elements to conquer a woman. Wear stylish clothes if there is a possibility that you will see the person in question at a bar, a party or other event, for example.
- Wear clothes that highlight your qualities. Go to a department store if you think you need a closet uplift. If necessary, ask a salesperson for help to find out what is right for you.
- Remember: nothing is sexier than being authentic. Try to look good in your own way. For example, don't do anything that doesn't fit your style just to get someone's attention. You're not going to be comfortable - and you're going to make it show.
- Shower and perfume every time you go out. Just don't overdo the spray.
Step 3. Pay attention to what the woman says
People are more attracted to those who show an interest in them. Don't just talk about your life; hear about hers.
- Ask more questions than the woman. This helps to break the ice. Say things like "What do you do for a living?" and “Where did you grow up?”.
- Always show that you are listening. Smile, wave and make comments like “Uhum” or “Got it”. Also, ask questions that continue the previous ones, such as asking for clarification and the like.
- Sexual attraction is about personality. Getting to know the person well can increase desire. The seduction process is much more interesting if you get to know the woman well.
Step 4. Be confident
Trust is another trait that attracts people. Get comfortable with yourself and show it when interacting with women who catch your eye.
- The line between “confidence” and “self-centeredness” is fine, and no one likes to hear people being convinced. Still, you can be proud of your achievements, your work, your origins and the like (as long as you don't overdo it).
- Make the woman smile. Many people are attracted to a good sense of humor. Try making a more relaxed joke on the first date to see if you can impress the girl.
Step 5. Use body language to flirt
Act directly and confidently to show interest. To do this, give the woman some signals to let her see that you want more intimacy.
- Straighten your back; walk with your head up and your shoulders thrown back; don't cross your arms; don't even hold anything in front of your chest. Show your self-confidence by posture.
- Try to break the physical barrier in an elegant way. For example: take the girl's hand to lead her through the crowd, put your hand on her back, etc. Move forward slowly, without making things uncomfortable.
Step 6. Use a proper pickup line
A lot of people think the pickup lines are cheesy, but you just need to think of something that isn't too old to win the girl a little more.
- Search for some cool pickup lines that play with your qualities - even if you seem a little smug. Women don't respond as well to these strategies when they involve empty or sexual compliments, as they do to teases that help them get to know a little about the guy they're talking to. For example: if you're a nurse, say something like “This party is pretty daunting, isn't it? As a nurse, I can declare the time of death”.
- If you want to choose a pickup line, think of something shrewd, that highlights some aspect of your life or personality: talk about your profession, hobbies, your qualities, etc. Just don't stop there: continue the conversation right away.
Part 2 of 3: Creating a good mood
Step 1. Make the environment fragrant
When inviting a woman into your home, it is essential to give the place a pleasant smell. Open the windows a few hours before she arrives to air out the space. Light some incense that is good but not too strong (like vanilla or sandalwood). Try to find out what she likes beforehand during your conversations. Ask what types of perfume she likes to get a better sense of what to do.
Step 2. Play music in the background
A little music gets anyone excited. Remember, the girl has to be the focus of things, not you. Choose something cool, slow and sensual.
- Ask her what songs she likes beforehand. Choose tracks from her favorite artists - as long as they're slower. Very lively pop songs make the mood less sexual.
- Very classic artists, like Roberto Carlos, can be shot in the foot. Choose non-traditional singers and bands so the girl doesn't get bored.
Step 3. Decorate the room
Space itself is also very important in the art of seduction. Try to decorate your home.
- Light candles and dim the lamps. The girl may be a little unsure if it's the first time you're going to have sex. So if the lights aren't so bright, she'll be more comfortable. Also, candles make everything more romantic.
- Clean the house before the girl arrives. It's much nicer to stay in a clean, organized place to get laid.
Part 3 of 3: Having Physical Intimacy
Step 1. Touch the woman's body
Start slowly: Sit next to her and place your hand on her knee or shoulder. Remember: the art of seduction requires timing. Don't be too fast.
- Give her a softer first kiss, without using your tongue, to leave her wanting more. In the meantime, try to find out how she likes being kissed so you know what to do next.
- If you and the girl have been dating for a while, take her by surprise in the form of seduction. Every relationship falls into a routine, which can get boring and boring. For example: start kissing her in the kitchen or bath.
Step 2. Focus on the woman's erogenous zones
These are parts of the body that stimulate sexual desire when touched, kissed, licked, etc. Not everyone enjoys the same places, but certain areas are often sensitive in most women.
- The neck and ears have many nerve endings and are not usually touched throughout the day. Therefore, perhaps the woman likes to be kissed, sucked, licked or even bitten in these regions.
- The head and feet are also erogenous zones for many people. Gently massage the spot to entice the girl.
- Focus on woman's lips for kisses. Lick, bite and suck.
- The belly, lower back and inner thighs are also sensitive. Many women enjoy these places.
Step 3. Advance slowly
You have to know how to move forward at the right time. If it's too fast, it can make the girl uncomfortable or even blown away. Be patient: pay attention to what she wants and try to make the experience good for both of you. Every now and then, stop and ask her if she likes what you're doing - and pay attention to the answer.
Notices
- Always see if your partner is confident and interested before doing anything. Once in a while, stop and ask if she's okay.
- Always have safe sex. Use condoms and other forms of protection.