The transition from childhood to adulthood is a real challenge for many young people who still feel like children. Having an attitude not to act in a childish way, taking responsibility and dealing with one's emotions are part of these changes. With a little practice, you'll soon find that you're acting more like an adult than a child.
Method 1 of 3: Dealing with One's Emotions
Step 1. Accept responsibility for your actions
Take responsibility for all your actions, whether they are intentional or not. This attitude is a sign of maturity and respect for other people. Everyone makes mistakes, and refusing to accept the obligations of adulthood may seem like a good idea at first, but it's extremely harmful over time.
If you accidentally hit your neighbor's car while taking yours out of the garage, for example, let them know immediately or leave a note telling what happened. Correct the error by paying for repairs or claiming insurance
Step 2. Show respect
Treat your partner, family, friends and strangers with respect. Children are often more selfish and rude, but as a mature person you need to understand the concept and importance of acting respectfully. Furthermore, respect is a two-way street: in order to receive, you must also offer.
- Respect everyone's right to have their own opinion, even if it's different from yours.
- Pay attention to what people say.
- Empathize and respect the feelings of others.
- Be true to your promises and responsibilities.
Step 3. Learn to handle conflicts maturely
Try to keep your emotions balanced when faced with some kind of disagreement. Control your anger and avoid fights. Take a deep breath, listen to what the person has to say, and try to solve the problem as friendly as possible.
In the heat of the moment, we end up saying things we regret later. If you're really angry, take a moment until you can clear your head
Step 4. Know how to accept constructive criticism.
People learn and grow through the feedback they receive from others. Accept the fact that you don't know everything, and that the opinion of someone who understands a subject is not intended to hurt you, but to help you.
If a teacher writes several observations on a school or college paper, for example, read the comments to see how they can improve
Method 2 of 3: Acting Mature
Step 1. Have confidence in yourself
Self-confidence is the key to success in many aspects of life. To be self-assured, you must understand what your strengths and weaknesses are, you must take risks and trust your judgment. Accept success!
- Dress up to convey more confidence.
- Maintain good body posture.
- Look people in the eye during the conversation.
- Be firm in your handshake.
Step 2. Avoid acting on impulse
Impulsive decisions are made without planning and without thinking about consequences. The ability to control impulse is a great sign of maturity.
Grocery shopping without a list can result in unnecessary purchases and items that are harmful to your diet
Step 3. Have attitude
Don't expect others to take the initiative to do something, act like a leader and take responsibility. Mature people know how to be useful without needing anyone's guidance.
- Do more than expected, whether at school or at work.
- Take the lead on some project in your neighborhood or community.
- Take on more responsibilities at home, such as washing clothes or mowing the lawn.
Step 4. Set goals
Goals serve to give direction in any area of life. Use short-term and long-term goals at work, at the gym, or at savings to buy something that costs a lot. Write down your goals and put the list, as a reminder, where you can see it every day. When achieving a goal, set a new one.
Method 3 of 3: Taking Responsibility
Step 1. Take care of yourself
When you were a kid, your parents did everything for you. Now that you are a mature person, the responsibility to take care of yourself is all yours. Eating healthy foods, exercising, and taking time to rest are just a few of the things you should do to take care of yourself.
- Learn to cook.
- Prioritize health by creating an exercise routine.
- Sleep well every day.
Step 2. Be organized
One of the most childish things anyone can do is leave the mess for someone else to clean up, especially when you don't live alone. Pick up the trash, wash your own clothes, do the dishes you use, and clean up whatever gets dirty. Participate in the house cleaning routine.
Step 3. Schedule and attend appointments
When you were a child, your parents used to schedule and take you to all appointments. It is now your responsibility to schedule and attend. Make regular appointments with the doctor and arrange to meet all appointments and work meetings.
- Write down all your appointments in the calendar or calendar.
- Use calendar apps so you don't forget the most important things. Use the alarm feature to receive an alert.
Step 4. Create a budget
Make a list of all expenses and income for the month. If the amount of expenses is greater than your income, you need to define what to cut or find a way to earn more money. Everything you receive or spend needs to be in your budget.
- If you're really angry, try to cool off before taking any action.
- If you want to have people's respect, respect them too.
- Maturing is a difficult process and takes time. Be patient.
- Don't be put off on tough days. Raise your head and strive to make things better.