Capricorn men are known for their reserved nature, work ethic, and difficulty in trusting people. But when you can see through that cold surface, you can find an intelligent, passionate and dedicated man. See below how to date a Capricorn man.
Part 1 of 2: Conquering your Capricorn
Step 1. Attend conferences
The first thing you should know about a Capricorn man is that he is very determined. The best places to meet a Capricorn are work events, charity or profession congresses. They are very dedicated to reaching the top of their careers. So go for it and do well at one of those congresses to get the attention of that Capricorn you've been keeping your eye on.
Step 2. Avoid wearing clothes that are too flashy
Capricorn men are quite reserved. Because of this, they tend to be interested in women who dress in a sophisticated way, but in a more conservative way. Putting on that sky-high stiletto heels and a dress full of slits is probably not the best way to attract him. Go for a classic look with a more feminine touch.
Step 3. Show your intelligence
Capricorns are attracted to intelligence above all else. Even with a beautiful look and a wonderful face, if he turns out to be an alienated hollow head, he will certainly lose interest. Instead, show off your intellectual beauty and bring up an interesting subject with him. But always stay in control and don't burst out laughing every time he makes a joke.
Don't be afraid to show your keen sense of humor. Capricorns generally have a more acidic and sarcastic sense of humor
Step 4. Build his trust
Capricorns have a hard time opening up to others. Before opening up, he has to know he can trust you. You need to be honest at all times, but don't expect him to open up so easily. Your Capricorn will take a while, but with your help and your displays of trust, there will come a time when he will open his heart to the relationship.
Be careful, you don't want to betray his trust, even if you don't. A Capricorn who feels betrayed has a hard time regaining confidence
Step 5. Don't beat around the bush
One thing a Capricorn man will not want is to play games of seduction. If you're up for it, make that clear and expect him to do his part. Trying to cause jealousy by parading another guy in front of him, acting passive-aggressive or playing hard to get will all have the opposite effect with a Capricorn. He'll walk away without a second thought.
Step 6. Invite him to a quiet program
The best way to meet a Capricorn and show that you are for real is to take the first step. Invite him to dinner, a picnic, or anything else for just two. Invite him to a club is generally not going to please him, while inviting him to dinner can make him feel at ease. This is your time to shine! Pick up topics you're interested in and let the conversation go on in a way that makes him feel comfortable and relaxed.
Step 7. Be patient
Capricorn men are known to become friends with a woman before dating her. Because of this, your patience will possibly be put to the test. When trying to win him over, don't rush him or pressure him into anything. Capricorns themselves must come to their own conclusions as you spend time together. Grab his attention by showing that you support him in the challenges he faces: go to events he organizes, read an article he has written, or give him sincere praise. So he will see that you can be a very companionable girlfriend.
Part 2 of 2: Maintaining the relationship
Step 1. Trust him
Capricorn men take their love life as well as their work very seriously. So he's hardly likely to be the rogue type. A passionate Capricorn will devote himself to the relationship. Although it takes a while for a Capricorn to open up, once the decision is made, be aware that you will have a very devoted person on your side.
Step 2. Know that he will be staying late at the office
Capricorns are known to be "workaholics". They take the job very seriously and will work overtime on many occasions. Be prepared for this and know that it is not a sign that he has lost interest in the relationship. He is really dedicated to his work and wants to give his best.
Step 3. Don't do too much drama
Capricorn men look for stability: they want a person who is dedicated and takes their relationship seriously. Hysteria and mind games will end a Capricorn's horny. Did he upset you? Tell me what happened that made you upset. Your Capricorn just wants to make you happy, and when you tell him about your needs, wants, and annoyances, he'll adjust his behavior to suit you.
Step 4. Support him as he tries to achieve his own goals
The idea of a perfect relationship for a Capricorn is one where the two people are able to grow and mature together. Support him in the challenges he faces, just as he will support you. Since he is very determined, you must have your own ideals and goals. The best relationship with a Capricorn is one where you are both independent and companions.
Step 5. Keep the flame of passion burning
Capricorn may be reserved during the day, but at night he becomes a very passionate lover. They are very attached to details (which makes them good at work), making them excellent lovers. Match your passion to his passion.
However, keep in mind that Capricorns are quite traditional. He's probably not into fantasies, massages, and so on
Step 6. Capricorn men don't like big parties
That means throwing a surprise party for him isn't the best idea. As you learned when you were still trying to get his attention at the beginning, Capricorn men prefer the company of a select group of friends and family. It takes them a while to gain confidence in new people. Because of that, a night at his favorite bar with close friends or a night at home for two suits him more than dancing in a crowded nightclub or going to a party full of strangers.
The Capricorn man will be happy if you take on the socializing tasks that make him uncomfortable. Having social skills is a valuable quality for a Capricorn
Step 7. Buy simple and practical gifts
Capricorns like functional things that aren't too flashy. Instead of buying that BRL 5,000 watch all studded with stones, prefer a pocket knife or a barbecue grill for the gatherings of friends he loves so much.
Step 8. Don't show too much affection in public
Public displays of affection don't please a Capricorn. Hand-holding is acceptable (he might even like it because of his protective nature), but making out in the middle of the street is probably not going to make him happy. Capricorns aren't too keen on exposing their private lives, so think twice about grabbing him by the suit and giving him a kiss in public.
Don't gossip about your Capricorn. He's very secretive and if he hears that you've been talking about your relationship around, he may feel betrayed and lose confidence. Talk about your love life only with friends you can really trust
- Be patient. Most Capricorns don't fall in love in the blink of an eye. They have to know you as a friend first.
- Have good manners. Capricorn men are very traditional and will not like to see you burping in public or acting sloppy.