How to Get an Aries Interested in You (with Pictures)

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How to Get an Aries Interested in You (with Pictures)
How to Get an Aries Interested in You (with Pictures)

So, you've already hooked your dream Aries, but now you're wondering what it takes to keep him interested. Since this sign tends to be adventurous and has a short attention span, the task can be challenging, but it will be worth it in the end.


Part 1 of 4: Keep Everything New

Keep an Aries Man Interested Step 1

Step 1. Avoid routine

Simply put: an Aries man will lose interest the moment the relationship becomes too routine. If you feel yourself getting into a rut, speed things up to keep yourself from getting bored.

Realistically speaking, it's impossible to make every day with him completely different. If you see each other on a daily basis, try to do something new with him at least once or twice a week to break this routine

Keep an Aries Man Interested Step 2

Step 2. Keep pace with him

If you haven't noticed, your Aries tends to like adventure. If you want to keep him interested, you need to join him. If he asks you what you'd like to do, go for a night walk around town instead of an evening indoors.

If you need to spend the night at home, make it as interesting as possible. Cook a meal using exotic ingredients or watch an instructional DVD on Latin dancing

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Step 3. Act fast

If the relationship is in its infancy, you need to keep pace. The Aries is not a fan of taking things slowly. Get ready to make him fall in love quickly, or not.

Of course, you also need to be honest with yourself about how ready you are to move the relationship forward. He may be ready to take you to bed, but if you don't feel the same way, don't let his pressure make you do something you don't want to do. However, if you are ready to move forward, move with confidence and without hesitation

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Step 4. Surprise him

Even if the Aries man takes the lead, he will enjoy a relationship with a woman who takes the lead, too. When he least expects it, surprise him with something new and exciting. If he feels a boost of energy when he's with you, he'll soon want to spend more and more time with you.

One weekend you might suggest doing something extreme, like bungee-jumping or rock climbing, especially if he has shown interest in these activities before. You don't have to drag him to this place blindfolded, just suggesting the idea can be a very pleasant surprise

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Step 5. Give the gift of experience

When you want her a nice gift, take her out on an adventure instead of buying her something tangible. He will enjoy the thrill of adventure much more than some trinket.

Front row seating for watching your favorite sports team or camping out on the weekend usually makes a better gift than something like a CD

Part 2 of 4: Give him room

Keep an Aries Man Interested Step 6

Step 1. Let him do his own thing

An Aries man needs to feel free and independent, so he may not always invite you to join an adventure. Try not to hold it, as this takes the excitement out of any Aries.

Try not to look too discouraged if he looks like he'd rather go out at night with friends than you. An Aries man doesn't beat around the bush: if he's no longer interested and wants to break up, he'll say so. As such, you don't need to worry that his sudden interest in hanging out with friends is a subtle indication that things are over between you

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Step 2. Be relaxed

Many Arians have a tendency to be extremely authoritarian and dislike being ordered about. In other words, you need to let him rule most of the time.

If you want things your way, you need to suggest things in a way that looks like it was his idea

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Step 3. Resist the temptation to surround him

Unfortunately, many Aryans have wandering eyes. They can flirt with other women regardless of whether you are in a serious relationship or not. This may prompt her to try to keep you at home or grab you when they're out, but this will push you away more than it will keep you looking in your direction.

If his eyes start to wander, skip the direct confrontation and concentrate on making him look your way again. Try looking at another guy and let him see. His competitive nature will cause him to invest his energy in courting you

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Step 4. Challenge him to gain your attention

If an Aries feels smothered by your attention, he may lose interest. On the other hand, if you challenge him to keep your attention instead of worrying about him, he will likely respond to the challenge more than adequately.

However, it is important to let him win after he accepts the challenge. Look disinterested at first, but once he starts getting your attention, let him know your efforts are working

Part 3 of 4: Be Active

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Step 1. Stay active

Most Aries love a relationship in which their partner is active in and out of the bedroom. Sports activities are a good way to bond with him, especially if those activities involve some level of challenge.

  • Engage in a one-on-one game like a basketball game.
  • Keep in mind that Arians hate routine, so physical activities should not adhere to a strict schedule. In other words, a daily jog after work might not be the best thing to keep your attention. Change your activity every time.
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Step 2. Follow him in his movements

In terms of physical intimacy, Aries rarely needs much persuasion. Whether they're in the fourth stage or not, you can expect him to act fast and things heat up in the blink of an eye. You'll need to keep up with him if you want to avoid boring him.

For your own good, you must stay in good physical shape. Otherwise you will feel exhausted before him

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Step 3. Be a tease

Unfortunately, Aries can be a bit selfish about acts of physical intimacy and quickly take over. If you want to have a say during the experiment, you will need to appear unimpressed at times. If you do, it can make you think more about your satisfaction in pursuing your achievement.

Show that your moves just aren't doing anything for you. Once he notices, he will be eager to figure out what to do to achieve his goal

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Step 4. Don't be afraid to try something new

As with every other aspect of your life, Arians need variety. If he wants to try something new in the bedroom, let him. If he doesn't get anything new from you, he'll get tired quickly.

However, if you are uncomfortable with something, just be direct and tell it to stop

Part 4 of 4: Be your cheerleader

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Step 1. Support him in his latest adventure

Since Aries crave excitement and variety, they tend to get involved in newer things than most other guys. He may or may not invite you on the trip, but either way, you should let him know that you've been rooting for him all the time.

  • This means being involved in other aspects of your life, whether they are new businesses or hobbies.
  • If he calls you on an adventure, join him with confidence.
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Step 2. Engage in debate occasionally

Even if he likes to be right, he needs to have the opportunity to prove how right he is in order to feel fully satisfied. You can and should challenge him from time to time, but keep in mind that you also need to let him win more than you lose.

Of course, if you have a strong opinion about something, you don't have to let him win. Being shy isn't very good, nor is it letting you win when it's obvious you're winning

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Step 3. Never put it down

An Aries' ego needs love and affection. If you are in the habit of correcting him in public, you are probably doing a fair amount of damage to his sense of self-importance and as a result causing his feelings for you to diminish.

Making fun of pictures from when he was a kid is not cool and laughing about a mistake he made with friends or family, as it will likely start a fight and seriously damage both your feelings. Despite being assertive, an Aries can be quite sensitive and easily hurt

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Step 4. Influence him with loving words and gestures

It's true that most Aries guys are impatient and independent, but to make the relationship last for a long time, you need to encourage it to grow emotionally. The best way to do this is with concrete gestures of affection. Deep down, he fears rejection, and having continued affection will go a long way.

Don't be afraid to look very determined. Frequent messages of "I love you" or "I can't wait to see you" are perfectly acceptable as long as he hasn't asked you to stop. Likewise, letting him know he's been on your mind all day will be a huge compliment

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Step 5. Be open

If you really want to keep his attention, you need to be honest with him. Giving him a challenge from time to time is important, but he won't like guessing games, so you need to be honest about anything he asks.

You should also avoid asking trick questions like the classic "Does it make me look fat?" He won't like being pressed against a wall, even if he knows how to get out of it


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