Attention, girls! Do you have your eye on that hot guy in your English class? Or maybe it's that kitten you see at the bar every Friday. Anyway, keep reading for some mouthwatering tips that will help you get him into bed with ease. As per Step 1 below!
Steps
Method 1 of 4: Preparing for Success
Step 1. Have a location in mind before you even start
It's probably safer to go to a hotel (although your home is the next safest place). Make sure everything is clean or that you have an easily accessible hotel ready for you.
Step 2. Wear something sexy
Wear something that's revealing and a little tight, but avoid the “bitch look” (no fishnets, leather, leopards, stuff like that).
Step 3. Take it easy on your drinks
It's okay to drink, you shouldn't feel guilty about wanting to drink some, but do it safely. If he's that hot, you'll at least want to remember that in the morning, right?
It is safer not to drink anything alcoholic. If you don't want him to piss you off for it, tell him you're allergic
Step 4. Be alone with him (or as alone as you can)
You need a quiet place to talk. If they're at a party, take them to the place where they can hear each other. Besides, getting your hands dirty in front of everyone is unpleasant.
Step 5. Make sure this is the best thing for you
Studies have shown that there is a high relationship between casual sex and depression, anxiety and low self-esteem. That's not to say they cause these kinds of problems, but make sure you're not looking for sex just to fill a void. There are better ways to make your life fuller and happier.
Method 2 of 4: Going Deep with Flirting
Step 1. Get closer
When talking to him, stay close to him, standing or sitting. Very close. He should be able to see under your shirt, smell your scent, and look deep into your lust-filled eyes.
Step 2. Sit on his lap
Play a little and sit on his lap. By doing this, you send his hips a direct message of exactly where you want them to be.
Step 3. Get your fuck
Once you start kissing, "master" the kiss. Show him who's boss. Bite a little. Kiss with passion. Give him a taste of what awaits him.
Step 4. Let your hands speak
Use your touch to show him what you have in mind. A casual fondling or even a firm grip can show him that you want to go deep into this.
Step 5. Tell him what you want
If he's not calling, tell him exactly what you want. Guys find this kind of initiative pretty sexy. Just say something like “I'm pretty tense today. I think I need an exercise. Want to get out of here and help me get some exercise?”
Method 3 of 4: Basic Safety Care
Step 1. Say NO
If you change your mind, you can say no. If AT ANY TIME you feel uncomfortable, you can say no. There is nothing wrong with that. Do what's right for you, and don't let someone else make you feel guilty to force you to do something you don't want.
Step 2. Don't drive drunk
Don't drive if you're drunk, don't let him drive. You don't want to go to bed if she goes to a hospital.
Step 3. Make sure someone knows where you are
You never know what might happen. For your safety, make sure your best friend or someone else you trust knows where you are.
Step 4. Keep an eye on your glass
Never leave your glass unattended, and only drink what you saw being opened or placed in it. Even if your cat is super awesome, that doesn't mean the other guys at the bar are too.
Step 5. Take protection and insist on using it
Everyone wants to stay healthy, right? Even though you are a girl, have a condom in your bag to use on him. And don't let him talk you out of using it, even if you take birth control. And know how to put one (in case he doesn't know or do it wrong).
Step 6. Take your cell phone
Again, you never know what might happen, so make sure your phone is with you and has taxi service numbers on it. Or a friend to talk to later.
Method 4 of 4: After the Sex
Step 1. Wake up first
You'll want to wake up first so you can leave without things getting awkward.
Step 2. Stay cool
You guys had sex, so what? You have nothing to be ashamed of. Just stay calm and enjoy the moment.
Step 3. Clean up
Get ready and make sure your panties, bra and all other items of clothing are in place. Get your makeup off your face quickly if it's all smudged, and fasten or comb your hair so it looks intentional. You should also clean up any mess you guys made last night as best you can without making too much noise.
Step 4. Get out before things get weird
Leave if you're staying at a hotel, or find an excuse for him to leave your house. You want to clear the bar before things get awkward between you, especially if either of you are new to this casual sex business.
Step 5. Don't apologize
You don't need to apologize to anyone for going to bed with a guy (unless you have a boyfriend, because then, whoops). Don't apologize to him. You're just going to make them both feel bad about something for no reason.
Step 6. Kiss him goodbye
A quick kiss goodbye will ensure the two of them go home with fond memories. Give your phone number if you want to leave the option open for a second round.
Tips
- Be yourself and get comfortable. If you're nervous or distant, the guy will probably think you don't want to go to bed.
- Always have lipstick and mint with you. You never know when you'll need it.
- Remember, going to bed with a guy should be fun! If you're not happy then it's time to stop.
Notices
- Don't bother if he doesn't like you. It just means it wasn't supposed to be with him, and that's normal. Do something to get him off your mind and find another guy.
- Don't be ashamed of anything.
- Don't become a toy for this guy. You must be in control!
- Say NO to anything that makes you uncomfortable.