3 Ways to Attract an Older Woman (Teens)

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3 Ways to Attract an Older Woman (Teens)
3 Ways to Attract an Older Woman (Teens)

Older women are more experienced, wise, mature and confident. How to attract someone like that? It's hard enough to attract even older girls, but a teenager who wants to bond with older people needs to learn to make a good impression. Fortunately, you just have to exude confidence, expand your horizons, and show your prospect that you're the right guy for her. Read the tips below to know where to start!


Method 1 of 3: Arousing a Woman's Desire

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Step 1. Be confident

The first step for you to win an older woman is to have confidence. If you're a teenager, you're probably still figuring out who you are, who your friends are, what you want to do with your life, and where you belong. This is normal, but don't let that "side" of you show when you're with your mate. In that case, show your facets already right - and that you love yourself, even if you're just starting to explore life.

  • Adopt proper posture and keep your chin up when she looks in your direction.
  • Show the woman that you are comfortable with yourself and don't have to try to please anyone.
  • Speak clearly, make eye contact and show that you know what you're talking about (even if you don't really know).
  • It's natural to be insecure and, as you get to know the woman better, let that side of you show a little more. Still, start with a more assertive first image.
  • Remember your competitors: older men who are in college or who have even graduated. The woman won't even pay attention if you let on that you're still lost.
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Step 2. Be assertive

Being assertive is very close to being confident. It means that you feel comfortable with yourself to the point of knowing what you want and making it clear to people. Don't be Maria go with the others and don't be insecure; start with a clear goal in mind: meet the woman, ask her out, and so on. Of course you have to respect her age and wisdom, but don't belittle her for that - or she'll start out not missing anything.

  • Show the woman that you are really interested in her. Don't be ashamed: smile, wave and, when appropriate, get close to talk.
  • Don't be isolated in the corner. Get close to her, even if it's just to say hello.
  • You have to be clear and honest even when introducing yourself to show that you are assertive.
  • It's okay to be nervous, but minimize signs such as tapping your foot and looking away while you're talking to her.
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Step 3. Seek to gain some experience

It's hard to gain experience when you're 16 or 17, but every little thing counts. It doesn't mean that you have to go out with a million girls or backpack across Europe, it's that you need to expand your horizons to show the older woman that you also understand some things. The "relationship" will never last if she always thinks she has to teach her the things in life See some examples of cool experiences:

  • Travel. Go to new places on vacation, even if it's a small town in your region. The more places and more people you meet, the more you will understand how big the world is.
  • Go out with girls of your interest. It's not nice to ask a girl out just to gain experience, but even having a date or two will teach you how to deal with women better. Your older suitor will lose interest if it becomes obvious that you have never dated or even had a "bid" with anyone.
  • Explore many different activities. You might even like football, but if that's your only interest in the world you won't have much to talk about. So do volunteer work, start studying a new language, visit local museums and do anything else that is even minimally interesting.
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Step 4. Be mature

Again: as difficult as it is to feel or behave maturely during adolescence, you have to try to impress the woman as much as possible. Women mature a little faster than men, and the difference can be obvious even when ages aren't all that different. Learn to control your mood, react sensibly to annoying situations, and minimize callous language and boring banter (which might be normal in your group of friends, but not for dealing with your mate).

  • Being mature is also about good control of feelings. Show the woman that it's not just any nonsense that makes you mad, or she'll think she's seeing a teenage tantrum.
  • Don't complain about everything around you, even more about the little things. Otherwise, the woman will think you don't have the sense to enjoy the finer things in life.
  • Don't gossip about your friends or other people. It may even be that the woman likes to gossip too, but don't overdo it - even more at first, since you want to make a good impression.
  • Be polite to everyone. If you make an appointment, treat the waiters and other staff wherever you go very well to show that you are mature.

Method 2 of 3: Hooking a Woman's Heart

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Step 1. Be fun to be around

Learn to develop traits that make you more attractive to older women - while being fun to be around, of course. She has to like some of your traits (preferably several) or younger men in general. For example, maybe she enjoys the fact that younger guys have less emotional baggage than older guys, don't have to worry about too much responsibilities, and so on.

  • Being immature is different from being playful. Every woman likes to play from time to time, so don't be afraid to show that aspect of your personality.
  • Make the woman laugh. If your sense of humor is one of your best traits, don't hide it for fear of appearing immature by making a woman laugh. All you have to do is have good taste to play games and tell jokes.
  • Don't get heavy. You want to show that you are mature, but you don't have to talk about serious matters right after meeting the woman. Have fun at the beginning and let things progress naturally.
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Step 2. Use your age to your advantage

Don't see your "young" age as an obstacle, but as something that attracts women. It could be something like your youthful appearance, your body springing to dance, the funny jokes you tell, and so on. Don't say anything like "I know I'm only 17, but…". Show that you love your age and that the world has its doors open.

  • Even if you don't have as much experience in life, you can impress a woman by talking about everything you plan to do and how much you're looking forward to it.
  • Impress the woman with your energy and enthusiasm. You can be a lot livelier than men her age (which is good).
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Step 3. Don't talk about themes that accentuate the age difference

Of course, you can't (and shouldn't) hide your age, but avoid talking about subjects that throw a woman's age in her face. For example, if she's in college, but you haven't even finished high school, don't talk about the subjects you have difficulty with or the scolding you get from the teachers.

  • You don't need to hide your academic life from the woman, but don't get too caught up in the subject either. Talk about your family, friends, and current events in your life that are outside this bubble.
  • If you're both in high school or college but she's still older, talk about things you want to do later in the course-not the feeling of entering a new phase in life. Your suitor has probably matured quite a bit between her freshman year and beyond, so it can be frustrating if she keeps remembering the time she's spent all the time.
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Step 4. Be independent

Older women tend to have age-matched friendships, more varied and intense interests, and a more troubled routine. Of course you want to spend quality time with her, but also show that you have your own friends, commitments and dreams.

  • You can start spending a lot of time together if you have a serious relationship. On the other hand, don't be too needy or clingy if you're only interested in hooking up with her (and she with you).
  • If the woman is really interested, don't say anything like "When are we going to see each other again?" Rest assured and ask her out again after a few days.
  • Talk about your day to day and show that your life is also busy. She won't be that interested if she thinks you're hanging around all day.

Method 3 of 3: Treating a Woman Well

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Step 1. Be a gentleman.

This part is indispensable for you, who wants to conquer an older woman. The concept of "chivalry" is dying, but it is still very important to treat your suitor with respect and politeness. For example: open doors for her, pull out her chair for her to sit in, and so on. See other legal situations:

  • Always be punctual or arrive a little earlier. Show the woman that she is a priority in your life.
  • Praise her constantly. Tell her she looks beautiful no matter what she's wearing or doing. Don't be shy about expressing what you really think - just be in moderation.
  • Don't spit, scratch your groin, burp or do things like that.
  • Always be tidy. Bathe, apply deodorant and perfume, and wear ironed clothes of the right size to show that you make a great effort to date the woman.
  • Make romantic dates with the woman. Don't take her to a fast-food chain! You might not have a lot of money, but at least do something romantic (even if it's just going to a Japanese carvery or a food truck festival).
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Step 2. Show real interest in the woman

Don't give your date the impression that you have a fetish for older women or treat her like a trophy. You have to be curious about her interests, what she likes to do on the weekends and who are the closest people in her life. Don't interrogate her, but at least try to get to know her better - no matter the age difference.

  • Ask her how her day was. That simple.
  • Ask for her opinion on a variety of topics, from her favorite musical artists to her political views.
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Step 3. Learn to converse well with the woman

In general, older women are more confident and experienced than younger women - which indicates they can talk for longer. You and your friends may even enjoy discussing your football team's latest game for hours on end, but also try to get informed, watch television, read news and literary works and the like so that you always have a topic. This will further expand your horizons.

  • If you read something interesting, share it with your prospect and see what she thinks.
  • Talk about relationships. You can discuss your relationship with your siblings or a close friend. Just don't name your ex-girlfriend!
  • Talk about your experiences with travel. Even if you only spent one semester on an exchange, discuss the most interesting aspects of your trip.
  • Be smart. When the woman says something funny, it's not enough for you to laugh. Comment something in response to show that you are following the line.
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Step 4. Don't talk about the age difference all the time

As much fun as the woman at first had a little fun with the age difference, you don't have to play with the subject over and over. Otherwise, she will find this difference very important and even be annoyed.

Don't talk about it in front of people. Stay cool when meeting her friends or introducing her to yours. Depending on their behavior, they may not even notice the difference

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Step 5. Be yourself

Maybe you're so focused on trying to impress and attract an older woman that you forget who you really are. Don't change your personality, or anyone will notice and want to back off. Remember that you are maturing and cultivating qualities that will catch young women's attention, but you don't have to change for that.

  • Don't be afraid to tell women about your "peculiar" hobbies.
  • Show off your main qualities, the ones your closest friends see. These friends like you for a reason that deserves to be shown to the world!


  • Take a test: if the woman laughs even at your unfunny jokes, it's because she's really into you.
  • Ask the woman to talk about something she likes to you.
  • Learn to use grammar properly.
  • Make it very clear that you are interested in her.
  • Always wear clean clothes.
  • Learn to mature without pushing the envelope.
  • Age is probably only going to be a real issue if you're underage and she's well beyond that.
  • Always be tidy, even more so to find your suitor.
  • Look your suitor in the eye and listen carefully to everything she says.
  • Be mature all the time.


  • Don't be cute all the time. This can get on a woman's nerves.
  • Don't be shy about asking questions.
  • Never ask the woman's age. She'll talk about it when she's ready.
  • Be careful with the second step of this article. Don't turn into a stalker.
  • Have no fear!

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