3 Ways to Be the Girl All Boys Want

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3 Ways to Be the Girl All Boys Want
3 Ways to Be the Girl All Boys Want

Some girls have whatever guy they want at their feet, but how do they get it? While seduction doesn't have a formula (no diet or clothing is the answer), there are tricks that can help you be successful with guys.


Method 1 of 3: Increasing Your Charm

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Step 1. Show off your awesome personality

Having a positive attitude and personality overrides the physical aspects and this helps a lot to attract people. A guy who has a thing for skinny girls might be attracted to an overweight girl if she's friendly and charismatic. Find out what your coolest attributes are and touch them down!

  • Identify your strengths and seize opportunities to show them off. If you are a caring girl, you can demonstrate this by doing volunteer work; if you are responsible, apply for class representative or join the guild if your school has room for that sort of thing.
  • On the other hand, it is possible to use an unfavorable trait in your personality and work on it. For example, if you're shy, you might start trying to socialize more. Maybe control your mood if you're an irritable person.
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Step 2. Take care of yourself

There isn't much that can be done to change one's physiognomy, but according to studies, people are more attracted to those who like to take care of themselves. Set aside part of the day to get ready, doing simple tasks like:

  • Bathe daily.
  • Caring and combing your hair
  • Brushing teeth
  • wear clean clothes
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Step 3. Highlight your best traits

Your best physical looks don't have to look like a picture from a magazine, men's preferences for the female body vary greatly from one to the other. Try to highlight your best features.

  • For example, if in your case it's the eyes, enhance them with makeup; if your legs are beautiful, wear more shorts and short skirts to show them off.
  • Wear makeup if you like. Don't feel pressured into it if you don't like it, but there is evidence that it influences men's notions of beauty. Spend a little and see how you feel. If you like it, include it in your routine. But be careful not to overdo it, you don't need to use a lot of makeup to look pretty. For example, use a translucent or clear brown mascara and lip gloss to draw attention to your natural beauty.
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Step 4. Wear something red

Apparently, the color red is more attractive to some men. Observe the balance rule, don't use all red pieces at the same time. A red blouse every now and then or an accessory to blush looks is okay.

Good options to vary your daily use are a red scarf one day, a lipstick of the same color the next day, a pair of earrings the next day, painting your nails, etc

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Step 5. Wear high-heeled shoes from time to time

They make men pay more attention and feel more attracted, according to research. These shoes are not very comfortable, so save them for special occasions like parties, graduations, weddings, etc. Also, heels don't have to be that high.

Method 2 of 3: Flirting and Using Body Language

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Step 1. Make eye contact and smile

Knowing how to look is an essential tool in flirting, as it shows you are interested, while smiling shows you are receptive. The next time you're interested in a guy in the room, look him in the eye from a distance while smiling for a few seconds and then look away. He'll automatically know you think he's a cat and want to get to know him better.

The first few times you may feel uncomfortable, but remember that he is definitely nervous too

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Step 2. When they are talking, try to imitate some of his movements discreetly

“Imitating” is using a posture similar to that of the person you are talking to; for example, if he is leaning on his elbows, do the same. This will develop a feeling of intimacy and demonstrate that you are interested.

  • Use this trick when you meet someone. If the conversation is really cool, so much the better.
  • Don't copy each and every move he makes so it doesn't look like you're making a joke. Choose a gesture here and a gesture there.
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Step 3. Start a conversation

You don't have to wait for him to take the initiative if you don't want to. Go to him and say hello. If he responds with a smile, it will likely be reciprocated, but if he responds shortly or doesn't make eye contact or doesn't smile, let it go and find someone else to talk to.

Ask questions to guide the conversation. Say something like "What do you think about days like today?" or “I love the coffee at this diner. You like?"

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Step 4. Be a good listener

This is very important to talk to the guys. You can be even more attractive if you know how to listen to what he has to say. Some important listening skills are:

  • Paraphrase: Repeat the information he says every now and then to show that he is paying full attention.
  • Wave. Nodding your head from time to time is a sign that you understand what he is saying.
  • Don't get distracted. Don't take your cell phone out of your bag at all when you're talking to the guy who's in the mood, he'll think you're not interested.
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Step 5. Ask open-ended questions

This type of question gives the person an opportunity to speak more than the closed ones, which only require “yes” and “no” as an answer.

For example, asking "Did you have a good day?" won't yield much subject. Prefer something like "How was your day?" This will show him that you want to hear him speak

Method 3 of 3: Keeping the mystery

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Step 1. Keep some things for yourself

Don't give too much information about yourself and mention amazing or unusual things you've done. No need to lie or add to the facts, just tell a story that describes your experiences in an exciting way.

For example, instead of explaining how you know so much about football, simply say “life has taught me a few things” and move on to the next topic

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Step 2. Be busy (a little)

The idea is not to cancel all plans with the guys, but not being available all the time will release dopamine (the pleasure chemical) when they can finally see you.

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Step 3. Control your emotions

Try not to be too emotional when meeting someone. Of course, you shouldn't be cold and dismiss his great feats with a wan smile, but skinny people tend to be tiresome. Try to stay your best. Doing so will add to the mystery and make him wonder if he could win her over.

An example is not jumping for joy if he asks you out. Say “Cool, let's go. What's the plans?"

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Step 4. Leave early

Make up a good excuse in advance to leave earlier than expected so you won't have to think of something last minute when he says, “Oh, already? But why?". Since you're going to have an appointment he doesn't know what it is, this will be a shot and fall to his aura of mystery. Be polite, positive and say goodbye.

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