How to Be the Bad Alpha Girl: 11 Steps (with Pictures)

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How to Be the Bad Alpha Girl: 11 Steps (with Pictures)
How to Be the Bad Alpha Girl: 11 Steps (with Pictures)

Becoming a legendary bad alpha girl just got a lot easier thanks to this step-by-step guide that will boost your self-confidence and help you become an independent girl. It's not for everyone, but only for the confident and underhanded.


Be an Alpha Bad Girl Step 1

Step 1. Get ready to have some work

Being an alpha is difficult because you have to live by everyone's standards and accomplish many things in a short amount of time. Still, if you know how to manipulate others while living freely, you've already completed step number one, bringing you closer to being a bad alpha girl.

Be an Alpha Bad Girl Step 2

Step 2. Being mean doesn't mean you have to be rude

An alpha girl is mean sometimes, but generally speaking, she just wants to have fun and go out and party all the time.

Be an Alpha Bad Girl Step 3

Step 3. Prepare for drama in everything you do and wherever you go

You'll always have to be the star of conversation and the center of the universe before someone else even gets a chance.

Be an Alpha Bad Girl Step 4

Step 4. Get out and make yourself noticed

A bad alpha girl draws attention and leaves everyone awestruck. She loves the confidence she has. She is very popular, feeds her social life and that of the people who are part of her.

Be an Alpha Bad Girl Step 5

Step 5. You don't have to be the prettiest or thinnest person in the world to be a bad alpha girl

Her confidence is what makes her the most wonderfully striking bad alpha girl.

Be an Alpha Bad Girl Step 6

Step 6. Do random things that are interesting and fun so that other people around you want to be with you every second

If you have a clique or want one, you will need to make a lot of friends. Remember to keep only 3 or 4 in your closest circle. However, never get too close to someone, because you don't want the possibility of being humiliated or stabbed in the back.

Be an Alpha Bad Girl Step 7

Step 7. Manipulating people isn't always the right choice, but if you want to become The Bad Alpha Girl, you have to

Do everything persuasively and sneakily or people won't want to hear you. Otherwise, you'll be bad.

Be an Alpha Bad Girl Step 8

Step 8. Keep your reputation up to date with all your might

Get rid of all the things you don't want people to know and then make everything you want to share more lively and wonderful.

Be an Alpha Bad Girl Step 9

Step 9. Don't give up if you're not invited to the best parties

Make people think that if you're not invited, they won't have fun. You're known for being the spirit of the party, even if that's not a good standout. Do not be shy! Run for it!

Be an Alpha Bad Girl Step 10

Step 10. Do outrageous things

Just don't do anything if you're down, or people will see your worst side Try not to have a crush on some hot guy, because if you get hurt, it can be embarrassing and embarrassing. However, never settle for less than the best.

Step 11. Create a small group

To be a bad alpha girl, you need a small group of people who respect and follow her. You need to be smart and make your people feel special. Make your little group look cool and cool to get more attention.


  • Never show any weakness.
  • Show yourself with remarkable self-confidence.
  • Laugh and act like you're having the moment of your life, even if you're alone.
  • Make an excellent first impression!
  • You must always look fearless and hot. Even when going to sleep.
  • Don't be afraid to stoop a little or be a little seductive. Always try to be highlighted.
  • Only be mean if someone disrespects you. Don't make a case for no reason.
  • Always be fashionable and be creative.
  • Follow the fashions and update your attire every time something new comes out, but keep your own personal touch.
  • Don't be afraid to do something crazy or embarrass yourself a little bit.
  • Rebel! Rebel! Fight back!
  • Manipulate! Manipulate! Manipulate!
  • Make friends with all groups and keep those "friends".
  • Have codes and signs within your group so they know when you need to get out of a situation. Show everyone what they are missing from being outside your group.
  • Make a myspace or Facebook and add thousands of people. Also post photos of the fun events you attended and make people want to hang out with you.
  • Be fake, mean, difficult and at the same time easy to get along with.
  • Watch The Bad Girls Club series and worship it as your bible.


  • Be a cow at your own risk.
  • Be extremely confident without being too pretentious, or you'll lose some friends and get a bad reputation.
  • If you try too hard, you will be known as a poser.
  • You don't need to smoke or drink if you don't want to or if you're not old enough.
  • Don't be so mean that you step out of your comfort zone, or you'll look like an insecure little girl. And if you seem insecure, you're going to lose friends and create problems.
  • Don't be known for being fake or people won't want to date you. Still, don't let your manipulative side go.
  • Being a regular alpha and being a bad alpha girl are two different things, so don't mix them up.
  • If you start to get bored, do something to spice up your life. Even cause a little drama if you need to.

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