School romance can be confusing and complicated, especially when you have a crush on someone. While it's not possible to force a person to be interested, there are many ways to impress girls and get them to pay attention to you.
Steps
Method 1 of 3: Talking to Girls
Step 1. Make eye contact
Interact with the girl you are in love with.
- Say hello when you see her at school and elsewhere as well.
- Be brave and just smile if you've never talked. Perhaps she will say hello herself in time - a smile is a sure sign.
- She will never know how you feel if you both don't talk.
- Don't be too shy when talking. Self-confidence is a very attractive quality.
- Don't stare at it too long. It will make her embarrassed, wondering what's wrong with her.
- When performing, maintain an open and lively posture. Don't stoop, look sideways, or grumble. Speak clearly.
- In the first conversations, talk only about amenities. Ask her how she is doing, what she has been doing, things about the subjects, etc.
Step 2. Use SMS and social media to interact too
She probably spends a lot of time on Facebook and Twitter. Start the message or interaction by speaking:
- "Hi, how are you?"
- "What have you done?"
- Comment the photos on her page. Talk about the pet, if she has one. If you see pictures of her playing a sport, this can be a conversation topic.
Step 3. Praise your dear at the beginning of the conversation
Girls like to hear nice things about themselves.
- Give friendly compliments. Don't just look at it.
- Girls don't want attention just because of their physical beauty. Comment on the things she does and likes.
- You can say "I saw you dance really well" or "I liked what you said in history class today. I had never thought about it from that point of view."
- If she's an athlete, talk about her team's last game: "Wow, you played so well!"
Step 4. Talk to her at breaks or at other activities within the school
Don't be afraid to talk about yourself so the girl can get to know you better.
- Ask questions about her family, interests or classes.
- During the conversation, make eye contact and show that you are listening. Say things like "This is great!" or "Wow, that's cool! I wanted to know more about it!"
Step 5. Get to know your passion better
Get involved in some of her activities.
- Showing an interest in the things she enjoys will make you spend more time together.
- Participating in the same activities at school will help you get to know her better. This shows that you are curious about what she likes.
- For example, offer to join the school newspaper, help with the graduation organizing committee, or participate in teamwork.
- To start this conversation, you could say "I heard you do _____. I'm great at _____ and I've been wondering if you'd like some help."
Step 6. Avoid talking about yourself all the time
Girls are not impressed by who sings advantage.
- Ask about the things she likes to do, about her family, pets, and school life.
- You can alternate what she says with facts and ideas of your own.
- Always bring the conversation back to her side.
Method 2 of 3: Impress the girls at school
Step 1. Do nice things for the girl
Discover her favorite things and surprise her.
- Buy her favorite flower and surprise her!
- Offer to take her backpack or books.
- During breaks or on occasions outside of school, bring her the snack she likes most.
- Help her with subjects and school events in which she participates.
Step 2. Be a good friend
Don't spread or listen to gossip that may surface about her.
- Gossip is a difficult thing to deal with at school, especially for girls.
- Defend her if someone makes a nasty comment about her.
- Don't let your friends spread rumors or gossip about her social life.
Step 3. Ask her out
Invite her to watch a movie or do something else she might enjoy.
- After some time flirting you can ask her out on a date.
- End with "By the way, are you free on Saturday? I'm going to buy tickets for this movie, want to go?" or something like that.
- If she has expressed interest in a particular event, offer to take her. Say "I heard you're going to the party on Saturday, so am I. Do you want to go with me?"
- Your date invitation has to be about her and the things she likes to do.
- Don't intimidate her when you invite her, and don't be rude if she refuses.
- It doesn't have to be expensive. What really matters in a date is spending time together.
- Try asking her out on a group outing if you're too shy at first.
Step 4. Avoid obsessing over her
That's sinister and tacky.
- Make room for her. Don't be sticky.
- Don't follow her to school or other places. Your interactions should be natural, don't force them.
- Don't overdo the attention. If the girl says she's not interested, don't pester her.
- Never touch or kiss a girl without her consent.
Step 5. Dress up
You want to be on the stretch whenever they meet.
- No matter what your style, your clothes should always be clean and ironed.
- You must always be at your best.
- Don't forget about hygiene - taking a shower, using deodorant, brushing your teeth, etc.
- Wearing nice clothes will make you more confident.
Method 3 of 3: Get Attention by Personality
Step 1. Be yourself
Don't be afraid to have your own personality and self-confidence.
- Girls like self-assured guys who feel at ease with themselves.
- If you are a creative guy, have a band, join a theater group, or practice artistic activities. That way you will meet and, who knows, attract girls with similar interests and talents to yours.
Step 2. Develop your interests
Get involved in your sports, arts or school activities, even if you just want to know about it.
- Don't spend 100% of your time thinking about her, or trying to impress her.
- Balance is needed in life. Keep busy with your own hobbies and chores most of the time.
- It's even possible that the girl shares some of your interests. Developing them can be a good way to spend time together.
Step 3. Have your friends
A guy with a good group of friends is attractive to girls.
- This can be a good way to meet girls, through the gang itself.
- Invite her out with you and your friends.
- Friendships are important. When you start dating, don't forget your buddies.
Step 4. Focus on the school subject
You don't want your grades to drop because you're distracted by love.
- A guy with good grades is definitely more attractive than a guy who's going to rock.
- Participate in classes. Girls notice when a guy demonstrates confidence in the classroom.
- If you are not doing well at school, ask for her help in the subjects she has mastered.
Notices
- Girls are not all the same; they have different tastes, ideas, dreams, fears and stories.
- First of all, find out if she already has a boyfriend.
- She might refuse if you ask her out, but there's only one way to find out. Prepare for rejection too.