3 Ways to Get a School Girl to Like You

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3 Ways to Get a School Girl to Like You
3 Ways to Get a School Girl to Like You

School romance can be confusing and complicated, especially when you have a crush on someone. While it's not possible to force a person to be interested, there are many ways to impress girls and get them to pay attention to you.


Method 1 of 3: Talking to Girls

Make a Girl at School Like You Step 1

Step 1. Make eye contact

Interact with the girl you are in love with.

  • Say hello when you see her at school and elsewhere as well.
  • Be brave and just smile if you've never talked. Perhaps she will say hello herself in time - a smile is a sure sign.
  • She will never know how you feel if you both don't talk.
  • Don't be too shy when talking. Self-confidence is a very attractive quality.
  • Don't stare at it too long. It will make her embarrassed, wondering what's wrong with her.
  • When performing, maintain an open and lively posture. Don't stoop, look sideways, or grumble. Speak clearly.
  • In the first conversations, talk only about amenities. Ask her how she is doing, what she has been doing, things about the subjects, etc.
Make a Girl at School Like You Step 2

Step 2. Use SMS and social media to interact too

She probably spends a lot of time on Facebook and Twitter. Start the message or interaction by speaking:

  • "Hi, how are you?"
  • "What have you done?"
  • Comment the photos on her page. Talk about the pet, if she has one. If you see pictures of her playing a sport, this can be a conversation topic.
Make a Girl at School Like You Step 3

Step 3. Praise your dear at the beginning of the conversation

Girls like to hear nice things about themselves.

  • Give friendly compliments. Don't just look at it.
  • Girls don't want attention just because of their physical beauty. Comment on the things she does and likes.
  • You can say "I saw you dance really well" or "I liked what you said in history class today. I had never thought about it from that point of view."
  • If she's an athlete, talk about her team's last game: "Wow, you played so well!"
Make a Girl at School Like You Step 4

Step 4. Talk to her at breaks or at other activities within the school

Don't be afraid to talk about yourself so the girl can get to know you better.

  • Ask questions about her family, interests or classes.
  • During the conversation, make eye contact and show that you are listening. Say things like "This is great!" or "Wow, that's cool! I wanted to know more about it!"
Make a Girl at School Like You Step 5

Step 5. Get to know your passion better

Get involved in some of her activities.

  • Showing an interest in the things she enjoys will make you spend more time together.
  • Participating in the same activities at school will help you get to know her better. This shows that you are curious about what she likes.
  • For example, offer to join the school newspaper, help with the graduation organizing committee, or participate in teamwork.
  • To start this conversation, you could say "I heard you do _____. I'm great at _____ and I've been wondering if you'd like some help."
Make a Girl at School Like You Step 6

Step 6. Avoid talking about yourself all the time

Girls are not impressed by who sings advantage.

  • Ask about the things she likes to do, about her family, pets, and school life.
  • You can alternate what she says with facts and ideas of your own.
  • Always bring the conversation back to her side.

Method 2 of 3: Impress the girls at school

Make a Girl at School Like You Step 7

Step 1. Do nice things for the girl

Discover her favorite things and surprise her.

  • Buy her favorite flower and surprise her!
  • Offer to take her backpack or books.
  • During breaks or on occasions outside of school, bring her the snack she likes most.
  • Help her with subjects and school events in which she participates.
Make a Girl at School Like You Step 8

Step 2. Be a good friend

Don't spread or listen to gossip that may surface about her.

  • Gossip is a difficult thing to deal with at school, especially for girls.
  • Defend her if someone makes a nasty comment about her.
  • Don't let your friends spread rumors or gossip about her social life.
Make a Girl at School Like You Step 9

Step 3. Ask her out

Invite her to watch a movie or do something else she might enjoy.

  • After some time flirting you can ask her out on a date.
  • End with "By the way, are you free on Saturday? I'm going to buy tickets for this movie, want to go?" or something like that.
  • If she has expressed interest in a particular event, offer to take her. Say "I heard you're going to the party on Saturday, so am I. Do you want to go with me?"
  • Your date invitation has to be about her and the things she likes to do.
  • Don't intimidate her when you invite her, and don't be rude if she refuses.
  • It doesn't have to be expensive. What really matters in a date is spending time together.
  • Try asking her out on a group outing if you're too shy at first.
Make a Girl at School Like You Step 10

Step 4. Avoid obsessing over her

That's sinister and tacky.

  • Make room for her. Don't be sticky.
  • Don't follow her to school or other places. Your interactions should be natural, don't force them.
  • Don't overdo the attention. If the girl says she's not interested, don't pester her.
  • Never touch or kiss a girl without her consent.
Make a Girl at School Like You Step 11

Step 5. Dress up

You want to be on the stretch whenever they meet.

  • No matter what your style, your clothes should always be clean and ironed.
  • You must always be at your best.
  • Don't forget about hygiene - taking a shower, using deodorant, brushing your teeth, etc.
  • Wearing nice clothes will make you more confident.

Method 3 of 3: Get Attention by Personality

Make a Girl at School Like You Step 12

Step 1. Be yourself

Don't be afraid to have your own personality and self-confidence.

  • Girls like self-assured guys who feel at ease with themselves.
  • If you are a creative guy, have a band, join a theater group, or practice artistic activities. That way you will meet and, who knows, attract girls with similar interests and talents to yours.
Make a Girl at School Like You Step 13

Step 2. Develop your interests

Get involved in your sports, arts or school activities, even if you just want to know about it.

  • Don't spend 100% of your time thinking about her, or trying to impress her.
  • Balance is needed in life. Keep busy with your own hobbies and chores most of the time.
  • It's even possible that the girl shares some of your interests. Developing them can be a good way to spend time together.
Make a Girl at School Like You Step 14

Step 3. Have your friends

A guy with a good group of friends is attractive to girls.

  • This can be a good way to meet girls, through the gang itself.
  • Invite her out with you and your friends.
  • Friendships are important. When you start dating, don't forget your buddies.
Make a Girl at School Like You Step 15

Step 4. Focus on the school subject

You don't want your grades to drop because you're distracted by love.

  • A guy with good grades is definitely more attractive than a guy who's going to rock.
  • Participate in classes. Girls notice when a guy demonstrates confidence in the classroom.
  • If you are not doing well at school, ask for her help in the subjects she has mastered.


  • Girls are not all the same; they have different tastes, ideas, dreams, fears and stories.
  • First of all, find out if she already has a boyfriend.
  • She might refuse if you ask her out, but there's only one way to find out. Prepare for rejection too.

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