She's beautiful and kind and you're finally getting along… is it time to kiss? If you've never kissed her (or never kissed anyone), it might intimidate you a bit. But do not worry! With a little preparation and practice, you'll become a pro in no time. Don't be afraid: you've set the whole mood. Go ahead and kiss the girl!
Method 1 of 3: Creating Success
Step 1. Practice
The best way to feel more comfortable and better when kissing is to practice first. It may seem like obvious advice, but it really helps. You can practice in your hand, with another object, or with another person.
Remember, you may not want to kiss someone else because you are emotionally attached to the girl you really want to kiss
Step 2. Have good breath
Girls don't want to get a taste of garlic in their mouths after kissing, as this can completely break the mood. Before the date or at some point during the date, brush your teeth and tongue and use mouthwash! To maintain good breath, try drinking water on the date instead of soda. You can also suck on a mint or chew a mint gum for a few minutes halfway through the date.
Carry a small mouthwash with you if you go to a restaurant. Excuse yourself after dinner and go to the bathroom. Use the mouthwash and puff on your hand, then sniff it to make sure your breath is good. Don't forget to shower and apply perfume. Girls love fragrant boys
Step 3. Flirt a little
This can help set the mood. Tell her she is well dressed; she will like it! Or talk about hair, eyes, shoes: the more detailed you are, the more she will like you. Girls who tease you in some way or hit you lightly may be wanting to touch you. Don't make too crude a thrust and prefer more subtle gestures, such as taking her hand quickly when you want to show her something; she'll like not having to go through a situation where she turns all red.
- If you're brave, wrap your arm around her waist and say something friendly, like "You're so cute!" or your smile is so cute!
- Offer to piggyback or tickle her if she likes it. Don't do this constantly and act respectfully. Don't touch her breasts or her ass. Respecting her is essential. Accept her limits and don't force anything.
- Flirting will make her more open to the idea of kissing. Think of the kiss as the top of the mountain you want to reach. You have to climb a bit to get to the top.
Step 4. Act at the right time
Acting at the right time will make things much easier. The end of the date is the ideal time, when you're usually saying goodbye, taking a walk, or after you've just finished watching a movie. You will find that all these moments are very private; therefore, it is important that both are alone. You must choose a special moment for the first kiss.
The kiss should also be just between the two of you. Don't go off telling everyone that you kissed her
Step 5. Ask
It might seem weird because we're used to just seeing those super charming people in movies kissing, but asking a girl if you can kiss her is a good way to show respect and understanding for her feelings. She will like it!
You can say something like, "I really want to kiss you. Can I do that?" or "Do you want me to kiss you now?"
Method 2 of 3: Getting the Technique Right
Step 1. Slowly move your face towards hers
This is the universal sign that you are wanting a kiss. Given time, the girl will have enough time to tell if she is uncomfortable. If you acted too fast, you could get slapped. Don't close your eyes until you're about to kiss her.
Step 2. Try a simple closed mouth kiss
Don't use your tongue when kissing the girl for the first time. Make sure you close your eyes before your lips meet.
Step 3. Tilt your head
Move a little to the side. If your head is level with hers, you will bump your nose against hers instead of kissing her lips.
Step 4. Move slowly and follow her instructions
If she likes a deep, passionate kiss, she'll keep his lips on hers for a while; you won't have to move your lips too much.
Step 5. Use your hands
If you like, place one hand on the girl's face and touch her cheek with your thumb. Make sure one arm remains firmly around her waist or lower back.
Step 6. Be sweet and kind
Kissing is like a silent conversation. You must be kind, kind, forgiving and need to leave her wanting more!
Step 7. Breathe
You'd be surprised how many people forget to breathe when they're not used to kissing! If you want to keep kissing the girl but have trouble finding a moment to breathe, try pulling away from her mouth and kissing her cheek or forehead.
Step 8. Stop when ready
Pull back slowly after a few seconds and open your eyes, caress her face. Congratulations! Every kiss after the first one is so much easier. You have reached the top of the mountain.
Method 3 of 3: Becoming a Professional
Step 1. Learn to kiss with tongue
This is the next big step for the kissers on duty. It's not as difficult as it sounds and, with practice, it can be a great addition to your kissing arsenal.
Step 2. Learn to make out
Making out seems difficult at first, especially if you both have a hard time finding a rhythm, but it will get easier with time. Do not exaggerate. Respect the girl, but never stop trying to keep things interesting.
Step 3. Learn to kiss with passion.
Once you've learned these basic techniques for your repertoire, you'll want to get really good at it: that is, you'll need to put passion into the kiss. It's easy to kiss with passion if you relax and let the feelings flow.
Step 4. Learn to kiss around other people
Chances are, the more time you spend with your girl, the more you'll kiss in front of others (such as on a date with another couple or on a date in public). This is allowed, but you must do it politely!
Step 5. Learn to kiss with braces on your teeth
If this is your first kiss, then there's a good chance you're wearing braces too. Do not worry! Despite all the teasing in movies and TV shows, it's not that hard to kiss with braces.
- Before your lips touch, swallow excess saliva and lightly lick your lips to moisten them. Be discreet so as not to cause awkwardness.
- Avoid dry lips. Exfoliate them with a little sugar to remove dead skin.